Yesterday, my children found a bird egg in the backyard. It wasn't cracked or broken and they worried that it may have fallen from a nest and have a baby bird inside. Lots of conversation about eggs and birds and nests ensued. This is what I love about children - these natural opportunities to learn arise and they just run with them. This is why I work in the Early Childhood Profession - I love the discussions with children, the insights into their thinking, hearing them make sense of their world.
When I was younger (and even now!) I didn't have that "maternal" instinct that a lot of my friends had. In high school I had absolutely zero interest in dong the child studies course that so many of my friends chose because "kids are cute!" I don't see chubby babies in prams and have the overwhelming urge to reach in and gush and goo over them. I didn't even really choose to study early childhood.
After meeting my now husband in my final year of school, I didn't quite "apply myself" as I should have and subsequently, my ideas of studying psychology were put on the back burner. It was my Dad who suggested doing a child care course and although I thought he was mad, for whatever reason, I decided to give it a go.
I arrived on the first day to be greeted by twenty women/young ladies who all seemed to have that maternal/kids are cute vibe. As they talked about always "loving being with kids" I began to wonder if I was in the wrong place.
On day two or three we began talking briefly about theorists and it was almost like I had been struck by lightning. THIS. This was what fascinated me. I quickly discovered that talking about how children learn, unpacking the intricacies of their play and their connections with others, this was the stuff that drew me in.
Over the years I have realised that I do in fact love kids, I have formed deep connections with so many children in my care and have even gone on to have three of my own. But I am not (nor will I ever be) that bubbly, gushing "kids are soooo cute" kind of educator, or person. There is nothing wrong with being that person if that's who you genuinely are, but I think that many educators feel like that's who they should be. That they need to perfect the sing-song voice and live up to this ideal of what a teacher should be.
Over the years I have realised that it is okay not to think children are cute (or at least... not just cute). Put perfectly on a podcast (ep 0214) I listened to recently, Heather Bernt-Wenig said "see what's happening behind the cuteness". This really sums up what working in ECE is all about for me. It's looking deeper, knowing more, unpacking play and seeing more than just "look how cute they are!"
Moments like those at the start of this blog post... that's what it is all about.
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